lately this question keeps coming to mind, if being a mother is a job that is assessed on a regular basis, what kind of rating would i get? am i a HIGH PERFORMER? or do i just PERFORM? or am i an UNDER-PERFORMER? am i an OK mom, a GREAT mom, or a BAD mom?
i wish i could give my sons the forms to fill out. because it would be interesting to see how well (or poorly) i do as a mother.